Porno Creep

(Written July 30, 2012)

No, it’s not about the song by the nu-metal band Korn.

Technology is such a great gift for this world. From doing many tasks easily, time-saving, otherwise, improves efficiency. With this, people uses the appliances to do their things without wasting too much time and effort, there’s telephone and cellular phones for communication. With technology, life has been made easier.

But of course behind these good’s, there’s bad.

From the terms such as Tommy’s Thumbmarks, Just  Over Eighteen, Barely Legal, Virtual Date, 800 Fantasy Lane, Debbie Does Dallas, Manhunters, Tarzan X, to the locally to name a few of them, haven’t yet failed to give a reason why conversations turn into a elicit, conspiratorial, and lascivious gestures and acts. And even commercials showing women in naked glory serves as sources of a young boy’s carnal appetite. Thus giving to fresh, new meaning of the words ‘seduction’ and ‘fantasy’.

From movies to magazines to CD and DVD packages,(With the emergence of interactive DVD’s, viewers can dictate and manipulate the pace of the sexual process with the use of remote control. Adding menus for selection of virtual stars.) From your computer’s internet browser and media player into your cellphone, that’s how pournalism (better term rather than pornography itself) spreads worldwide, entertaining humans, mostly men, showing women in bikinis and school uniforms teasing with their D-cup breasts and can perform sexual satisfaction thru contact with the viewers. In adults and middle aged-teens, okay I’ll consider you guys. But for the children? Look, with this generation, where a 9-year-old boy knows how to perform sexual onslaught by seeing images shaped by pornstars—which is now considered as key to pleasing men, now think of what I’ve said before.

United States and also Japan are some of the countries which considers pornography and pre-marital sex legal. Adult Video (AV) industry, as what they call it is, a high-gross business for them, mostly Japan  (independently), so stars as Sola Aoi, Suzuka Ishikawa, and widely-known Maria Ozawa, can be called as  ‘bodies of money’, while in America, Adam and Eve is one of the highest-selling porn-movie producers—mostly online, selling copies of films stars Alexis Ford, whilst Rocco Siffredi, are known for having intercourse for making love with over 8 girls—simultaneously. Some of the stars are so whimsical, demonstrating ‘techniques’ to making a girl scream during an intercourse, Shawna Lenee is an example of this.

Tastes in pornalism shifted as time goes by, as variations exceeds. From the multi-angle P.O.V., to creampie, to the gauntlet bukkake, to cosplay sex—implementing pornalism today, known due to its subgenres. With this, anyone can direct a ‘scandal’, examples? Celebrity couple dancing in front of a hidden camera, later criticized by the whole society, or  even naked seniors in a shower.

I’m not a prude, and haven’t got yet involved into any debates and arguments about this extensive paranoia. But we begin to questioning everyone, what the heck is this society has, tolerance over 18-year old beautiful and cute girls having sex with crocodiles? How about their consequences? The danger? Is a naked woman tease-dancing to his ‘customers’ differs from a 12-year-old moron masturbating while watching Deep Throat?

But as we believe, there are punishments and consequences which immoral young ones have never been learned. One morning, a news TV network reports a Brazilian was found dead at his house, investigated that masturbating over 45 times, led him to the gates of death.

My favorite writer Lourd De Veyra stated, “ang tunay na lalaki, syempre, mahilig din sa tsiks, mahilig din sa sex.” He has the point to say it, but let us not forget that moderation and control is always there.

That Saturday morning between 7 a.m., I’m having a date with my girlfriend, were eating at a chain somewhere in Novaliches. She gave me the permission to use her laptop. I opened a new browsing window, checks her browsing history is already ‘memory full’.  I was shocked seeing porn sites on her web history. I grinned then wondered, “Isn’t that weird seeing my girlfriend enjoys watchingVirtual Date with Jessica Kizaki…alone?”. I thought she was ashamed of being found out so bringing out the topic in a private and subtly way is best.Without hesitation, I asked her honestly, and she answered me, honestly, She forgot to erase it, last time she opened it. So I told her, “It’s not that bad to watch these kinds of movies as we’re middle-aged, but don’t make it a habit and a sexual desire, you’re not a harlot.” She followed my advice, but we never watched it nor imitated it—together.

However, trust, honesty and good communication is the key to a long-lasting relationship.